Saturday, March 10, 2007

how NOT to catch a plane


Russian Policeman Starts Bomb Hoax to Save Boss From Missing Plane
MosNews.com







A Russian policeman has been jailed for phoning an airport with a bomb warning to help acquaintances of his boss make their flight, the Reuters news agency reports quoting an article in the Friday issue of Russian daily Kommersant.

A senior police officer, who was seeing off two businessmen in the Urals city of Yekaterinburg in February last year, told his subordinate to fix the problem when they failed to board the plane on time.

The assistant phoned the airport and said he had received a message about explosives and weapons on board the plane. The aircraft with 40 passengers on board turned around in mid-air to return to Yekaterinburg.

The police officer and his subordinate were sentenced to 21 months in prison each, the paper reported.Witnesses cited by Kommersant said the businessmen had been drinking in the airport.

Thursday, March 08, 2007

at night at the movies

We took the kids to the movies last night and they all enjoyed seeing Night At the Museum. It was fun to hear them laugh. I am not a Ben Stiller fan so I didn't enjoy it as much as everyone else did. I did like Robin Williams... he is one of my favorites.

Spencer gave me not one but two e-cards for Women's Day so he scored major points!

The Ultimate Blog Party is winding down but I truly do appreciate everyone who was able to stop by. I noticed that there are over 900 blogs listed on the party site and I know I have not made it to most of them yet!

I am writing this early because we have a big day and night planned for tomorrow. Two of the kids are skipping school to spend the day with us and we have Celebrate Recovery to attend! <== Click on the highlighted words and go to the ministry link when you get there!

International Women's Day





















I got an email from our friend Olya. It was great to hear from her and to feel connected to our Russian friends.

Today is International Women's Day and is a major holiday in Russia. It seems strange that people are not wishing me "Happy Women's Day". They don't celebrate Mother's Day there as we do in America. Women's Day celebrates all women... not just those who are mothers.
Flowers, candy and wishes of happiness, joy, peace and success are given to each female in your life!

Wednesday, March 07, 2007

all things Texas!
















Spencer and I saw this in a Stuckey's on the way down here. We went back out to the car to get the camera. In Krasnodar we were treated by some friends to cornbread made in the shape of Texas so when we saw this it reminded us of Robert and Ann right away!

Tuesday, March 06, 2007

meetings, meetings


it feels like all we are doing is this!











We are back with our friends in Tom Bean. The drive into North Dallas for our meetings was not bad... going there it was less than an hour in the car. We watched Dreamgirls at the hotel last night and that was a real treat! We also were taken to dinner at the Cheesecake Factory. I had not eaten there in at least three years. We had lunch at a little Italian place and I had an Italian sausage Caesar salad and Tom had a crab cake salad... very tasty! We enjoyed going out to eat with Louie he has great taste in restaurants!

Monday, March 05, 2007

if it's Monday

We must be in Dallas! Don't know if we will see much of the city. We have meetings to attend all afternoon and evening. And tomorrow will be the same.

If we get a chance we may go to a movie... we have not been to a theatre to see a movie in English for 2 years! We saw things like Madagascar, The Island, and Chronicles of Narnia in Russian. So to watch in English will be a major treat!

Sunday, March 04, 2007

Tom Bean

Wow! It has been great to see our friends again.

They have another dog. Last time we were here they had Skip and Angel. Now they have added Sparky... he was homeless and they took him in. Tom, Paul, Hailey and I were hanging out in the family room watching the Food Network after church and we had all the dogs at our feet or angling for a seat on the couch!

The service today was great. It was overwhelming to sing worship songs in English. I think I cried more than I sang! We are still having difficulty making decisions in stores. We went with Paul after church to pick up some food for lunch... just deciding on side dishes for the fried chicken was draining.

We are going back to church for a prayer meeting. Kim, a nurse, has to work this week so we only saw her at church this morning for a short while. Tyler and Spencer went to the youth meeting after the first service while Luke and Hailey attended the second service while we shopped for lunch.

We met with most of the elders at church this morning and got the chance to speak with a couple who adopted two boys from Russia. They are now a family of seven!

We are driving into Dallas for some meetings tomorrow and Spencer is planning to hang out here in Tom Bean while we are gone.

Saturday, March 03, 2007

Amarillo News

We spent the night in Amarillo and now we are on the way to Tom Bean. It was a quick drive here to Texas and we are so excited about seeing our friends!

The drive was mostly uneventful... Spencer and I took a few pictures. When we got to the Texas border it looked like a storm was coming through. The winds were very high and we had thoughts that a tornado may have been nearby.

Thursday, March 01, 2007

Ultimate Blog Party











How could I forget the big party???


I am setting a place at the table just for you... so don't be late!















Have questions like "why Russia?" ask away! I blog about our daily life in Russia, our trials with learning this language, and the work we do here. I write for our family, friends and supporters. I am glad that you have chosen to stop by. Please take your shoes off and enjoy some Russian hospitality... each time we have been to a Russian home for a visit out comes the photo album.

Our two years in Russia have taught us the importance of gift giving... if you are going to a Russian home for dinner the most popular gifts are flowers and candy! Make sure you take an odd number of flowers... even numbers are for funerals.

Take care and come again!
Alida

on the road again!

We are leaving for Dallas this morning. This will be our first trip without Nathan. It seems strange to leave him behind.

Stops in Texas include Tom Bean, Sherman and Dallas. It will be great to see old friends and meet new ones. I remember seeing an old ad about getting to Tucumcari by nightfall. I asked Tom if we would make it that far. He says that since it is only a few hours away it won't be a problem. Actually, I think the goal is Amarillo so that we make it to Tom Bean the next day!


I hope that we find internet access along the way... if not, Spencer and I will start going through withdrawal.

Enjoying the view
















Spencer and I have been enjoying the walking path not far from where we are staying. It is very peaceful. Yesterday, we walked during our errands but didn't take an "official" walk and I realized this morning how much I missed it.

We started walking 5 times a week before we left Russia. It is helping me to feel better which is a good thing. Spencer is a great cheerleader. He is very encouraging and keeps me from quitting or giving up too soon!

We plan to keep up our walks all throughout our time here in the states... so if you want to join us just let me know. We would love to see your favorite walking trail!

Wednesday, February 28, 2007

keeping in touch

I have written before about the joy of email. Today I was excited to hear from Zhenya. She oversees the Women's Department at the BLTC. It was great to hear from her and feel connected to the women there in Krasnodar while we are away for a bit. It is interesting that while in Russia, Zhenya and I communicate in Russian. My Juno account won't accept Russian letters so I have to write in English... thankfully, Zhenya is fluent in English!

Please pray for the upcoming session in April... I know that the women who will attend are going to be blessed and will bond even more with one another.

Spencer and I went out to find a "pay as you go" phone. We found several at Walmart and then started thinking of how we could have a cell phone here in the states and still say money. We decided to check out buying a SIM card for my Russian cell phone. As long as you have an "unlocked" cell phone it should work anywhere you travel. At Cingular the SIM card was free and all I had to pay for was the minutes.

Now I need to go to Radio Shack and see about a converter to be able to plug in my phone charger... it has a European outlet!

Tuesday, February 27, 2007

Nathan can build



























Nathan put together his new desk for his room! He said he wanted to do it all by himself and then wanted to know why I was not in there taking pictures because as he said "you love this kind of stuff" I do love to record our family milestones... I was just trying not to get in the way!

Sunday, February 25, 2007

Watching the Oscars

Jennifer Hudson quote from her acceptance speech:

"Oh my God, I have to just take this moment in. I cannot believe this. Look what God can do. I didn't think I was going to win," Hudson said through tears of joy. "If my grandmother was here to see me now. She was my biggest inspiration."

To hear Jennifer give her speech was a highlight for me. I pray that she continually holds onto God as she has so far... her roots in the church and her faith run deep.

She can give a testimony to young women that is powerful. She didn't win American Idol like she wanted... yet two years later she is an Oscar winner! Only God knew that was part of the plan for her life. She kept on working and doing what she felt called to do. And though she did not get the accolades she wanted from American Idol her Oscar win leaves no doubt about the gifts God has given to this incredible sister in the Lord.

Let Jennifer's win inspire you to keep on going after a defeat or disappointment... you never know where it might lead!

Saturday, February 24, 2007

interesting article

Court Rejects Russian Schoolgirls’ Lawsuit Against Darwin Theory


MosNews

A Russian court on Wednesday threw out a lawsuit brought by a 16-year-old student who said that being taught the theory of evolution in school violated her rights and insulted her religious beliefs, the Associated Press news agency reports.

Kirill Shreiber, whose daughter Maria’s complaint had prompted the suit in December, said he had expected the decision by the St. Petersburg’s Admiralty District Court, and promised to appeal the decision.

“Our task remains the same: to dethrone Darwin’s theory. People should not eternally believe in the complete nonsense of Darwinism,” Shreiber told The Associated Press. “Man is the result of God’s creation, and many scientists share this point of view.”

The court judge announced the verdict in a short hearing, and said an explanation for the ruling would be released later.

Maria Shreiber claimed the 10th-grade biology textbook used at the Cervantes Gymnasium was offensive to believers and that teachers should offer an alternative to Darwin’s famous theory. Her father told the AP that she dropped out of school at the beginning of January, after receiving low grades that he blamed on teachers who were prejudiced against her.

She now works in the Dominican Republic at a tourist company he declined to identify.

The suit was the first of its kind in Russia.

In the United States, several lawsuits have been filed challenging Charles Darwin’s theory that says humans descended from apes. Many anti-evolution groups have pushed an idea known as “intelligent design,” which states that living organisms are so complex they must have been created by some kind of higher force.

Friday, February 23, 2007

first impressions

Our first impressions being back in the states after two years in Russia:

*there are too many choices in the stores

*people are speaking a language we completely understand

*people give each other more personal space than we are used to... there were a lot of empty seats on the shuttle bus to the plane and people stood far apart.

*there are too many choices in the stores!


In Vienna at the airport we were able to purchase magazines and books in English. Then at the airport in D.C. there were two Borders Stores. There were two Starbucks.

The Passport control in D.C. was not any faster than in Moscow and only slightly more organized. The workers were just as sarcastic with people!

Walmart is huge... Borders and Starbucks are everywhere!

Thursday, February 22, 2007

travel time

Tim picked us at 2:15am. Our flight left at 4:55am. We left Russia on February 22nd and we lost 14 hours as we traveled. We have been traveling for 28 hours... Tom says that this is the longest day of his life!

Wednesday, February 21, 2007

tickets are here!

Our tickets arrived by DHL yesterday. We are almost packed and ready to go. It is not easy to pack for four months. We know that we will be purchasing things in the states. But, planning what to wear in the cold and also in the heat of summer is tough. Gathering up school supplies so that we can study while we are gone is also a priority... part of the bulk in my suitcase is our lessons!

We have a 24 hour journey ahead of us:
Krasnodar to Vienna, Vienna to Washington D.C., Washington D.C to Albuquerque

Each of us hopes to pick up some reading material in Vienna. They have several stores where you can buy magazines and books in English.

Please pray for us on our journey back to the states and for Goar and Katya as they stay here and take care of our home!

Tuesday, February 20, 2007

russian cuisine update

I got an email this morning from Russian Cuisine. It describes a fascinaing week long holiday that is celebrated here in Russia. If you ever get the chance to see the movie "Siberian Barber" there is a scene that shows the festival there as well.

Pancake week
The first day of the Pancake week is called "Meeting". The people of one village went to visit those from another one and to show themselves. People gathered at highlands and ice hills. The fire was made and pancake songs were heard far away from the holiday place.

The second day is called "Play beginning". The main show is the noisy and merry siege of snow fortresses, horse race and other joyful competitions. Masked people "Riajenyi" were walking around a village singing funny songs and greeting Maslenitsa. Maslenitsa can be a simple straw sheaf that was decorated little by little while visiting different houses.

The third day is "Sweet tooth" (Lakomka). All the village ate blini (pancakes) with such delight you can't imagine. Sour cream, butter and strawberry jam was kept on a large table right in the center of the village. The mother-in-law invited her son-in-law and daughter to be treated with her most delicious blinis. Everyone praised his blinis. Pot with pancakes was with you all the time and every neighbor was treated with your mouth watering "golden suns".

The fourth day was named "Large Thursday". The revival of sunny days was celebrated by our greatparents. At the same tine Maslenitsa sheaf was left on the hill and everyone added more straw to it. The fifth day is "Mother-in-law's evenings". Just married couples treated with blinis their parents. And kids had fun on ice hills.

The sixth day is the "daughter-in-law's parties". Young daughters-in-laws welcomed all the husband's relatives. The good cheer was accompanied by gifts and warm words. From this time on, the daughter-in-law became an equal family member. This holiday serves as a pretext to find peace of mind with everything and everyone. And at the end, late in the evening, Maslenitsa farewell was celebrated, the fire was set and Maslenitsa was burnt. Bye. bye, Maslenitsa!

The seventh day of Maslenitsa is the "Forgiven Sunday". You should beg pardon to each other for any hurt feelings. Don't forget about this wonderful tradition.

Sunday, February 18, 2007

Nathan Goes Away Party






This is Nathan












This is Nathan playing Twister














This is Nathan watching Hannah spin the dial













Where is Nathan? This is a Going Away Party... Nathan has gone into the other room!












We had great food, great friends and a great time! Nathan was celebrated and prayed over and questioned about his plans for the future. We are grateful to Joy for pulling it all together. And we are thankful for each guest that came out to see Nathan off on his new life adventure!
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progress

Imagine sitting through a two hour service entirely in Russian when the only words you know how to say are "thank you" and "hello". Two years ago when we first arrived we needed a translator with us everywhere we went.

*Today in church the songs, the prayer requests and the sermon were all understood. Yes, we still have words that we make note of to look up after the service... that will always happen.

*Spencer gave a birthday card to Valentin and he wrote out the greeting himself in Russian.

* Nathan had a friend pass him a note about his going away party he was able to write back and forth in Russian... hmmm, I am giving him a compliment regarding something he should not have been doing!

Thank God for how far we have come over the course of two years!

Friday, February 16, 2007

Russian Al Anon materials arrive!


We finally have the materials that my home group from California sent! We are excited that the new group can move ahead and start meeting... and yes, since we are on our way back to the states soon they will begin without me but that is okay.
This package was sent out in November and just reached us on Thursday!

packing and cleaning







Today was not much fun... we were cleaning and packing and packing and cleaning. Goar and Katya are coming over on Saturday to check out the apartment. They will live here and take care of the place while we are gone for a few months. Goar is one of our teachers and Katya is the former roommate of another teacher... plus she is a househelper for Tim and Joy so it feels safe to us to have these young women stay in our home. They need to learn things like; how to use the washing machine and how to turn on the TV and DVD player.

Spencer's room is all cleaned out. He has changed his furniture around and it looks a lot bigger than before. Nathan gave a piece of furniture from his room over to Spencer and now Nathan's room looks bigger too.

Tom and I have Nathan's boxes in our room. The guys worked again today to pack and weigh boxes. The plan is to pack his boxes in our suitcases to bring Nathan's stuff back to America.

The reality is setting in for each of us that we are actually leaving next week and it feels as if there is so much to be done!

Thursday, February 15, 2007

Tom's turn















Tom fed Yanna when she was here on Tuesday. It was my turn to take the photos! Yanna is five months old and heaven knows what she will be able to do when we get back here... right now her favorite trick is turning over. By the time we return in July it will be sitting up by herself or something very grown up like that! Valentine and Sveta's little girl will be a year old by then and another young couple at church will have had their first baby. Life goes on!

Wednesday, February 14, 2007

Happy Valentines Day!


We wish you love, laughter and the ability to listen to one another!

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

Nathan's moving day

Nathan taking inventory on his belongings












Spencer and Tom helping Nathan pack











We finally can say that we have tickets purchased for our trip to America.

We were advised not to miss out on a major transition for one of our children... so that means we are all coming back to help Nathan get settled into his new life. He is very eager to learn to drive, his driving lessons were interrupted with the move here. He is ready to get a job and make some money for himself, he didn't have an opportunity here in Russia to work for pay.

We are supporting Nathan in this new phase of his life as much as we can or as he wants us too... although it is not easy for me as a mom but I clearly recognise that I cannot keep them little and dependent on me forever!

Monday, February 12, 2007

writings on the wall















graffiti is showing up all over town in various languages... we saw this on a garage near a friends house in a different region. In our region the Apple Crew is tagging everything in sight.
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Sunday, February 11, 2007

60 years young!















Celebrating is one thing that we all love to do! One of our Social Ministries team members turned 60 this weekend and we all got together to celebrate! Tom M. is an inspiration to us all. He has been studying Russian at the same school we attend and he did all of the speaking at his party yesterday in Russian... it gives us young ones hope!
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Speaking of parties...
if you notice in the side bar there is a notice about The Ultimate Blog Party!
March 2-9th. I hope that you decide to check it out and see who participates. I'll be there!

Friday, February 09, 2007

beth moore and anna nicole

Two women completely unrelated surprised me on Friday. I woke up and got online only to find out that Anna Nicole Smith was dead. Knowing that she was only 39 years old and had a baby girl the same age as my neighbors daughter that I spend so much time with knocked the wind out of me.

During the same internet session I had logged onto someones blog and discovered that Beth Moore has a blog. Reading her and her daughter's posts about Anna Nicole helped me make sense out of how I felt. I did feel Anna's brokenness. Tom and I have discussed some of her emotional wounds. I see young women here and am reminded that women around the globe are using their bodies to give them a sense of power. These young ladies end up showing the world how vulnerable they are instead. Like Beth Moore said in her post:

"Anna Nicole Smith publicly fought and lost the same battle of insecurity that you and I privately fight. Had we had money, access, and opportunity, no telling what lengths we might have traveled to feel a little better about our broken selves. "

I pray for all the Anna Nicole's here in Russia and around the world. She made the news here today... how many young girls are yearning to look like her or be famous like her and will go to any lengths to try and get it? There has to be a better way to fill the hole in the souls of these women. May all who seek come to find the One who can make us whole!

Thursday, February 08, 2007

Everyday

He fell to the floor with a loud thud, a few people turned around to look. One man helped him up, gently setting him down in the rear of the bus. A kind old babushka picked up his hat, handed it to him and went back to her seat. One or two passengers in front of me turned to peek at the drunken man then turned around as if nothing out of the ordinary had happened.

The pretty, young cashier was highly agitated with the man at her counter. He asked her questions that had nothing to do with making his purchase... and she was in no mood to small talk with him. He reeked of alcohol. He slurred his speech. She rang up his groceries, put them in a bag, laid his change down in front of him and started to wait on me all without a word. As he left the store, the cashiers closest to her began to laugh. One of them commented on being able to breathe again.

Everyday, we see people who drink too much. Everyday we see people affected by those who drink too much. Everyday we pray for those around us to realize that only a Power greater than themselves can help them stop drinking.

babies and stuff


Taking care of a 5 month old is exciting, draining and fulfilling. Each time I get a chance to care for Olya's daughter Yanna is a complete joy.









Yesterday Yanna was here all day. She took two naps and Olya had to wake her up to take her home. Olya and Volva had errands to run so Yanna stayed with us and they took Ira with them. Ira was not thrilled about that arrangement she wanted to be with Uncle Tom and Aunt Alida too!

Afterwards, Olya and Tom went over to the store where he jewelry was being sold to check on the inventory. Tom took back all the items he had for sale over there... it appears that the location of the store may be changing as the owner of the building may be tearing it down to build something else. Tom still has pieces at Garmonia (Harmony) Bible Store here in town.

We heard that our ministry partners out at the rehab center are new grandparents. Mother and baby are doing well. Angelina was born five minutes after her mom got to the birthing house. She is 47 centimeters long and 2.5 kilos.


All has been quiet on the southern Russia front this morning. Spencer is at school. Nathan and Tom are still asleep and I thought I would pop online to read the news and decided to stop off here as well.

I hope you have a great day!

Wednesday, February 07, 2007

Read All About It!


Opening up email is one of the highlights of my day. It is exciting to see who is thinking of us, what is going on in the world, read my online magazines or Bible study. After all, we rarely get letters in our mailbox here... not even junk mail!
That means that opening email for us is like you opening your mailbox!

I received an email from Black Purl Magazine saying that my Pray and Crochet blog is the featured blog right now. Seeing our family photo was quite a thrill. Please check out the magazine when you get a chance! There are great articles on various crafts and patterns are also available.


Tuesday, February 06, 2007

totally blessed

A clean refrigerator done by Olya

Dinner prepared by Tom

Dessert prepared by Spencer

being able to come home and not have anything that I had to do.... priceless!

Monday, February 05, 2007

New CD's

Nathan made individual Cd's for each one of us. The one he made for me brought me to tears. It has different kinds of music on it. Classical, Rap, Show tunes, Video Game music and more. It is all music that he listens to that he thought I might enjoy. Tom and Spencer each have one tailored to their personalities and what Nathan wanted them to remember about him.

We sat and listened to mine together... the song that brought me to tears is from The Little Mermaid. It is "Kiss the Girl". It is one of my favorite songs from that movie. I sat there remembering that this was the first movie we ever saw together in the theatre. He was three when the movie came out and he absolutely loved being big enough to go and see a real movie!

Where did the years go? How does he know each of us so well?

His gift is one that I will cherish always!

Sunday, February 04, 2007

The Front Door

Walking home in the snow after church, I was cranky because I knew that I had a meal to prepare and not much time to get it done. I was not thrilled that Tom had invited someone over right after church. I love having guests... I just like having some down time after church.

Our dinner guest today was someone from Tom’s AA meeting. This person has been sober for 2 ½ years and had many questions about why we are here. We were asked about church and if it would be okay to attend. Now that there is an AA meeting at the church, there may be others who will be interested in the church. Not all churches here are supportive of 12-step recovery. Yet, as I recall the words Rich Buhler spoke at our Fundraising Auction in California, I realize how true they are. He said, “12 step ministry is the front door of evangelism”.

I am glad that we were all in the kitchen while I cooked. I can look back and think about what a special time that was. The kitchen is an important place in Russian culture. We shared pictures, food, tea and laughs and it was wonderful to get to know this person a little better.

Saturday, February 03, 2007

Old Soviet Bus Stop















If you want to see more of these check this link: http://www.polarinertia.com/jan07/bus01.htm
Thanks Misty for posting about this... Tom and I got a kick out of seeing them.

Thursday, February 01, 2007

Baby abuse alleged at Russian hospital

Please keep these items in your prayers...


Baby abuse alleged at Russian hospital

By MIKE ECKEL, Associated Press Writer
Thu Feb 1, 11:11 AM ET

Prosecutors said Thursday they are investigating allegations that workers at a central Russian hospital taped infants' mouths shut to keep them from crying, in a scandal that has sparked widespread outrage.

In a second incident, prosecutors in the Far Eastern city of Yuzhno-Sakhalinsk said they had opened a criminal probe at a kindergarten where an employee gave unauthorized injection to children to help them sleep. According to some news accounts, all or some of the babies were orphans.

The alleged mouth-taping at Hospital No. 15 in the Ural Mountains city of Yekaterinburg, about 900 miles east of Moscow, has received wide coverage in the Russian media.

According to a statement posted on the prosecutor general's Web site, investigators found that hospital workers allegedly used tape or adhesive bandages to shut the mouths of infants on several occasions to quiet them.

Regional prosecutors were conducting a criminal probe into whether hospital workers could be charged with dereliction of duty or child abuse, the statement said. It was unclear when or if charges would be filed.

Earlier this week, Russian TV broadcast video reportedly taken with a cell phone that showed a crib with sleeping baby who appeared to have a pacifier taped to its mouth.The Interfax news agency on Tuesday reported that Yekaterinburg city health officials had reprimanded the hospital's chief doctor and its chief nurse.

Russia's health and welfare institutions — including hospitals and orphanages — fell into disrepair after the Soviet collapse as government funding dried up. Though government revenues have risen with world oil prices, many welfare institutions remain woefully neglected, as often as not victims of corrupt officials, and employees are often paid miserly wages. In Yuzhno-Sakhalinsk, on the Pacific island of Sakhalin, regional prosecutor Tatyana Kutuzova said that investigators had opened a criminal probe into whether a worker injected children to calm them down or to help them sleep.

She told the NTV television network that the worker lacked the necessary training and qualifications and should not have been working in the kindergarten.Lyubov Kuritsina, a regional education official, said the worker had been fired.

In another recent incident that caused widespread shock, an infant in southern Russia had to have her arm amputated after an injection for a routine illness caused a blood infection.



***** just a note on the article*****
This last children's hospital mentioned is the one here in Krasnodar where Ira spent last week. It is in horrible condition according to Olya. And although there had been a news story announcing the scandal and claiming that the head doctor had been fired... he was in fact quietly rehired.

giving directions

Today there was a women’s luncheon for students from the language school. The women have been getting together once a month since last year. This luncheon was the last time that Ann would be there. Ann and I decided that if it were going to take two buses to get there we would share a taxi.

My job was to have a taxi pick me up, go to her house and finally to the restaurant. I know there is a motion verb “to pick up” or “to stop by”. I could not find exactly what I was looking for in our 501 Verb Book. I decided to explain to him what I needed to do. I told the driver that I needed to meet my friend at her house first and then go to a restaurant. I gave him Ann’s address and we took off. When we got to Ann’s building, he asked me which entrance. I answered him using a feminine ending for “second” and I should have used a masculine ending because the word for entrance is masculine. I corrected myself and then apologized to him for my Russian. He told me that he did not speak any English at all. He assured me that no matter what I wanted to say to him as long as it was in Russian he would understand! And he did. We did not have the exact address for the restaurant but knew about where it was. We made one wrong turn and had to double back but we got there.


I appreciate that the people we meet here are grateful that we try to speak in Russian with them even when it is not perfect. Every now and then, you might get an impatience cashier but for the most part people are patient and understanding.

Wednesday, January 31, 2007

New contact

Tom had a meeting with the head psychologist over at the Physical Fitness, Tourism and Culture Institute today. Her name is Svetlana and she happens to be a friend of Natasha's (the head prison psychologist) they attended graduate school together.

Tom was introduced to Svetlana by V. V is the other AA member in town who has the most sobriety other than Tom and he recently started a new AA meeting in Svetlana's building. V gave Tom a call and told him it was important for him to meet this woman because of the work that she does.

Tom found out that she has received a federal grant that is funding a rehabilitation center for children who are alcoholics and addicts. She showed Tom a photo of the center it is in an old two story house here in Krasnodar. Svetlana speaks four languages, Russian, English, Armenian and Georgian. Tom said it was a pleasure to speak with her. She told him she felt relieved that other colleagues were "coming to the rescue". She says that there are not many psychologists here and not all of them know and/or understand the 12 steps.

Svetlana has invited our family to have dinner with her. Her children know Spencer. Her daughter, Raizana was one of the girls who helped us load our boxes onto the truck when we moved out of the house on Gagarina to the BLTC before our remodel. Raizana just became a Russian citizen yesterday. The family is Georgian and they worked for three years to get her documents taken care of.

We are excited about where this contact may lead. Only God knows what ground work is being laid here. It may be possible for Spencer and I to do our social project at this rehab center for kids!

Tuesday, January 30, 2007

all in a day...

Early this morning around 5 AM, the wind was blowing very hard and one of our screens was about to blow off. Tom fixed it and went back to bed. Before Tom left for school this morning he noticed that two of our screens were down so Spencer went out to find them. We were lucky. Spencer found them both. We lost one in the last wind storm. We didn't notice it was down soon enough and someone must have walked away with it.

Lena was back at work today after taking time off to care for Yanna while Ira was in the hospital. I had to write an essay about "I am grateful to God because". I wrote it out last night and then Lena helped me with my spelling errors and grammar mistakes. I wrote about the dreams I had for traveling when I was younger. Growing up I never thought I would ever have the opportunity to live in a foreign country. I was excited when we moved to California from Kansas and were able to travel throughout California. There are so many beautiful cities there... I was content and thought that we were truly blessed. I feel even more grateful for the chance to live and work abroad!

After spending time with Lena I needed to go to the supermarket. Nathan and I were about to head out when I decided we should call to see if Olya needed anything. We picked up baby food and bread and dropped it off for her on our way home.

Spencer and Andrew are playing video games. Nathan is reading in his room and Tom is doing his homework. Just another day in Krasnodar!

Monday, January 29, 2007

package fun

We made a big batch of brownies on Sunday. Nathan and I ventured out into the snow to purchase ice cream... how could we eat brownies without ice cream!?

Thanks Mom and Dad for the brownie mix, books and all the other goodies. Nathan is hunkered down in his room reading.

I was also able to start on some new medicine for my fibromyalgia. We got three packages in one day... it felt like Christmas.

More snow is falling and it is getting colder outside. Thankfully we have plenty of heat inside, lots of apple cider and DVDs to watch at night.

Prayer update:
Ira went home today and is doing well!

Sunday, January 28, 2007

Sick child















We have been praying for Ira (eera) this week. She could not keep any food down was put in the hospital. Hopefully, when she sees the doctor tomorrow she will be deemed well enough to come home. She is eating now and playing with other children in the hospital. Please remember this little one and her family. She is very dear to us!
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Saturday, January 27, 2007

rainy day fun

We watched a father and son play badminton in the rain!















our play area just behind the building















ready to serve















waiting to hit the ball back.


This time last year we had temperatures of -20. This winter all we have had is heavy winds and some rain.
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Thursday, January 25, 2007

Thursday's events

This funeral took place outside of our apartment building. This person has been dead at least three days. That is how long the body would have laid in state inside their home before the funeral.















Leading the funeral procession
















casket lid
















The body in the casket

















the mourners follow
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Wednesday, January 24, 2007

Happy Birthday Tom

Tom is 44! I was not able to actually post on the 24th. I tried to log onto Blogger and there was a problem. He says it was one of the best birthdays he has ever had. He enjoyed his gifts, his cake, hearing from his friends and eating pizza from a new place we decided to try out.

in other news:

For the past two weeks, there has been a session at the BLTC. Tom and I were not able to participate due to school. There will be another teaching session in April.

I went to a party for the Women students. ( I got home in time for pizza and cake with the family)


The first thing we did was sing a worship song as a round. But, it was not just singing. There were hand motions involved. As we sang we had to tap our neighbor to the left on the leg, tap each one of our own legs and then tap the underside of the hand of the woman on our right and then tap her hand two times on top. And we did this all while singing. Two women could not keep up with the action and the song... so we had to do it again!

One game involved stuffing twelve balloons into a pair of pantyhose. Once that once done we had to wear that as a hat... and then put on a scarf and some gloves, after which we had to take a slice of gum out of a package, open it and chew it. That was the hardest thing to do wearing a pair of big bulky mittens. I am happy to report my team won!

When the games were all over each one of the students was given a copy of Norman Wright’s book "Always Daddy’s Girl".

What a great evening! Two parties and loads of fun!

Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Tuesday

Lena was sick today so Spencer and I didn't have language helper sessions. And then Olya called Tom to let him know that Ira was sick so Tom didn't have a language session either.

Olya needed somethings from the store so Nathan helped her out with that. It was nice that he was around to help her out.

Today was a slow day around here... tomorrow is a special day though; Tom turns 44!

Monday, January 22, 2007

monday

The wind was blowing VERY hard today. Spencer and I could barely stand up straight as we went to the bus. It was unbelievable! I don't know how Tom made it home with groceries in tact.

After school I went downtown to purchase the cashmere yarn that is my Christmas present from Tom. It was so much fun looking at all the different colors and finally choosing something special. I love working with cashmere it is very soft.

There were two wonderful things waiting for me when I finally got home.
One:
I had asked Nathan to put the chicken in the oven at 5 so that it would be ready at 6. It was done!
Two:
Tom had spent an hour and a half in line at the post office and came home with a package from my friend Joanie. We now have seasons 2-5 of the show "24" to watch. We saw 4 episodes of season two tonight!

Fighting the wind, walking for blocks that seemed as if they would never end and being jostled around on the bus... all faded away when I walked through the door to the smell of dinner and the treat of some American TV!

Sunday, January 21, 2007

visitors at church

Today at church we had a young man from Azerbazhan. He gave what he called the "short version" of his testimony. He started off by saying that Russian was not his first language and that he didn't speak it very well. He asked us not to laugh if he made a mistake.

I overheard later that his accent was too strong and his grammar was a disaster... this is incentive to continue on in language school!

He grew up on the streets in a strong Muslim community. He talked about almost dying three times while he served in the Army. He talked about being afraid to read the Koran. But, reading the New Testament gave him comfort. He was led to Christ by one of his neighbors. This neighbor lived in one of the houses he had previously vandalised. Living as a Christian in a predominantly Muslim area is very dangerous.

Please pray for the believers there and in other places of the world where just acknowledging Christ can put your life in jeopardy.

Saturday, January 20, 2007

a frightful sight

Today I was on the phone with a friend who was telling me about seeing a dead man on their walk home through the park. I thought what a horrible thing to have happen to you. Especially for the children.

This afternoon Nathan and I were headed out to the mall to pick up some blank CD's. As we were standing at the bus stop Nathan noticed to large pools of liquid. He tapped me on the shoulder and asked "is that blood?"

It was. It was unmistakeable. Two large pools of blood on the uneven pavement. I don't know if I will ever stop seeing them so vividly in my mind. We don't know if it was human or animal. Spencer tried watching the news to see if there was a report of an incident in our area. As of yet we don't know of anything.

Friday, January 19, 2007

Russia weathers a disturbing warm winter

Russia weathers a disturbing warm winter
By MIKE ECKEL, Associated Press Writer

It was one of Russia's traditional days for taking a dip and swimmers were complaining — because it was too warm outside. Countless Russians every year mark the Orthodox Epiphany religious feast by plunging into water through holes in the ice and shivering vigorously in the frigid air. On Friday, the ice was either thin or absent and the air wasn't especially cold.

In a country known for brutally cold winters, a spell of unseasonably warm weather has unnerved many people and caused experts to worry about the effects of global warming.
While much of Siberia and the Russian Far East soldiers through the usual long and grindingly cold winter, people in the rest of the country have been lamenting abnormally high temperatures that have left many rivers free of ice, fields absent of snow and weather forecasters confused — but not without hope.

"I'm not ready to give up on winter just yet," said Gennady Yeltsev, deputy director of the Russian meteorological committee.

Last year, much of January was unusually cold, down to 22 below zero. This year, temperatures have generally stayed above freezing in Moscow and St. Petersburg.

Believers marked Epiphany by dipping in lakes and rivers across the country, a practice they believe purifies the soul. Swimmers had to chip through the ice at Siberia's Lake Baikal, but bathers in St. Petersburg had temperatures reaching 44 degrees Fahrenheit.

Umbrellas outnumbered fur coats at one Muscovite baptismal hole amid a driving rain more reminiscent of April than January.

Sergei Maximov, chairman of the Walrus Club of Serebryanny Bor, a Moscow neighborhood that includes the city's most popular beaches along the Moscow River, said some people were bothered by the temperatures that hovered above freezing, but he wasn't among them.

"I was the last one in, about four in the morning and the water was so soft, so soft," Maximov said. "The feeling you get is the same, warm or cold, a complete purge of all your sins."

Animals in many parts of Russia have seen their biological clocks thrown out of whack. At St. Petersburg's Leningradsky Zoo, two of five bears have come out of hibernation weeks ahead of time. Even the hedgehogs have insomnia this year.

Older Russians shake their heads reminiscing about how temperatures 58 degrees below zero helped stymie the Germans as they reached the outskirts of Moscow in 1941; grass was growing this week near the famous tank defenses north of the capital.

Russia's agriculture minister played down fears that the lack of a hard frost and snow cover would affect future crops. A hard frost helps improve soil structure, while the snow serves as a blanket for crops.

Sergei Gulev, a climate scientist at the Russian Academy of Sciences, said global warming appears to be affecting how storms move across the North Atlantic, determining whether an Arctic blast is pulled into Russia or whether gale-force winds and warmer air push in from the Atlantic.

He said abnormally warm winters — which he said peasants a century ago called "a waif's winter" because it stunted crop growth — occurred every 10-15 years. Now they're happening every two or three years, and with more intensity.

"We can expect from climate predictions that this winter, the type we're having now, will be more and more frequent in the future," Gulev said.

Still, the warm temperatures haven't been all bad. Among those breathing a sigh of relief have been utility executives, who had warned about possible energy shortages if temperatures plummeted. And the warm weather also eases the burden on municipal heating systems.

And cooler weather is in the offing: Yeltsev said temperatures are forecast to fall in the Moscow region, possibly reaching 14 below by Wednesday or Thursday.

Thursday, January 18, 2007

Nathan copying photos




















Nathan is making a file of family photos to take with him. This one is from three years ago at The Aquarium of the Pacific.


















this is him now...

I am not sure how many photos he is going to take but he is searching through all of my files.

He claims I have all the family photos... well duh! I am the MOM!

Wednesday, January 17, 2007

middle of the week










Someone asked me what I wanted from America. I asked for Raisin Bran. We got the Raisin Bran today and now we can make Mom's Raisin Bran Muffins. I will post the recipe after Spencer and I make them. Mom gave the recipe to him so I will walk him through it.

Tuesday, January 16, 2007

TV day!

Thanks Dad for all the TV programs that you sent!

So far we have watched a football game, Shark, Without a Trace, Cold Case, CSI and the Rose Parade. As a special treat after the Rose Parade we got to see the first episode of Life With Ed.

It is always a joy to watch American TV... we can make popcorn and tune out our culture stress for a bit. And the good news is that we all finished our homework so the TV did not get in the way of that!

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Tom is working with Olya now as his language helper two days a week. Tom and Lena's schedules don't match now he is not available in the mornings to work with the rest of us. So I am watching girls while Olya helps Tom with his lessons. Today just Yanna came over with her mom and she cried the entire time. Olya said that she fed her some new food. I felt so sorry for this little one. She had gas from both ends and it was obvious she was in pain. She would fall asleep in my arms and then a gas pain would wake her up. I pray that she gets some sleep tonight so that Olya can get some rest!

Monday, January 15, 2007

What color umbrella looks good on you?

Today I was listening to a group of women talking about how they choose an umbrella. One of them chose her umbrella color to match her eyes. She had a light blue umbrella and her eyes are blue. The other woman said that because her skin is pale whatever color she chooses changes her complexion to that color... she won’t use a green umbrella because it makes her look green. The umbrella she had was a bright rose color... to make her skin look rosy.

I can admit that I have chosen umbrellas based on how they will look with what I am wearing. I have a pink raincoat so my personal umbrella is pink. I also have a green umbrella for when I wear my green leather jacket. Spencer's umbrella is black with red flames. Tom and Nathan pick up what ever one is handy... sometimes Tom won't even use one. We have an umbrella that has room for two people that comes down over the shoulders... totally shielding both people from the rain. We have exra umbrellas to loan to people who need one to get home.

It was interesting to listen to these women speak. They were not dealing with the practical aspects of using an umbrella they were more concerned with the fashion aspect.

How do you choose an umbrella?

Saturday, January 13, 2007

full house





this table held all the preteen girls!











Our New Year's Tree






















dressed in black









Valentin on the left with Alexei M.
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Ira is ready to party!

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yanna and alida

Spencer took this photo of me with Yanna!
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Old New Year

I went over to the church on Saturday to help with setting up for the party. I had two hours of live language that was very insightful. Now I know how to make fried Russian meat pies. I had to mix up the filling. There were some new verbs used and that was helpful. Everyone understood when I spoke or asked a question so I was excited about that. I didn't get corrected today and I don't know whether I didn't make any mistakes or if they were being polite. Normally I get corrected at least once!

I came home and changed clothes and then Spencer and I went back for the party. The church was filled with great smells and lots of people. I took a few photos but am having trouble getting our ScanDisk card reader to work so I cannot load them.

When I got to our apartment building one of our neighbors was fussing at a group of girls for coming over with their goodie bags asking for candy... he told them that tonight was the wrong night and that they should come vack tomorrow. They were asked if their parents knew they were out. And when they said yes they got invited in! New Years and Old New Years is like Christmas, 4th of July and Halloween. Kids go door to door for candy and money. Fireworks are set off and presents are exchanged.

Olya came to the dinner at church with Yanna and Ira. Yanna just about fell asleep in my arms she almost made it through dinner. Lena took her into the mothers room and laid her down. I sat next to Ira and she gave me the crust from her meat pie. I caught her before her little greasy hands were wipe on my skirt. I was quick on the draw with a napkin! Childproofing the table meant moving the candle and the candy away from 2 year old Ira... she was not happy with either being taken away from her.

Spencer and I stayed through dinner and worship. After that games started and we were both getting tired. Before we left Jim told us he was definitely going back to the states at the end of the month. I called Nathan and he is ready to go back with him. That is a relief to know we don't have to worry about him missing a connection in a foreign country somewhere and we would not have any way of helping him out. Now he has a travel buddy and I am glad!

Friday, January 12, 2007

How can you be a blessing?

I recently was told by someone that information on "how to donate" should be posted on the blog. I resisted doing this for many reasons. But, all of them seem silly in comparison to standing in the way of someone who wants to help further the work with alcoholics/addicts and their families and may not know how.

One time gifts & regular monthly support can be sent to:

EastWest Ministries
PO BOX 701560
Dallas, TX 75370
Account # 9231

To donate online click here and fill in the information. You can choose to donate monthly using your credit card!

Thanks to those of you who have sent gifts and support us regularly.
Thanks to those of you who have asked how you can help.

Thursday, January 11, 2007

school day

Tom and I went back to school today.

It was hard work. He and I were both in our classes alone. Which means there is no one else there to answer the teacher's questions. You have to go it alone for an hour and a half.

I could not remember the case endings. I honestly had not thought about them during the time we were on holiday from school. She would say to me "the word is masculine with a soft sign" and I was like "and that means what to me?"

Tom's comment on himself was "it was horrible!"

We both spent time working with Lena. She has not been here in about three weeks. She decided to give herself a vacation too. It helped to get back in the swing of things. We never stopped speaking Russian we just stopped the intense studying for a while.

Hopefully, Tom will have a better day in the morning. He and Spencer both have class. Spencer stayed home today with a sore throat. He is hoping to feel well enough for school. He hates to miss out!

*** special thanks to Erin and Hilary. We got your Chirstmas cards this week in the mail! Most likely they sat in the post office for a while during the governmental holidays for New Year's and Christmas. We still have one more holiday left to go... Old New Year!

Wednesday, January 10, 2007

on the horizon

We will be having house guests soon. MajLis called to ask if we can take in a couple who will be here for the upcoming session at the BLTC.

The BLTC's new building will be dedicated on Sunday... it truly is beautiful.

On Saturday KBC will be having a big "church family" party. When Vadim called he asked if our family could prepare something to share with everyone like a skit, song or a reading... we still have not decided what to do. I thought about singing but I am still not feeling well.

School starts at 9am for Tom and 1:30 in the afternoon for Spencer and me. Nathan is not going back. He already called to inform Jim and Tania. He is busy with packing and preparing for his return to the states for university.

Tuesday, January 09, 2007

Let There Be Heat!

Tom and I had a meeting at the BLTC today. When we left we heard our building manager yelling at someone who was underneath the building.

When we realised it was him we wondered if they were fixing the output to the radiators. And we were right!

When we got back home and felt our radiator it was finally hot to the touch and not just luke warm... Tom was talking about putting on shorts!

Monday, January 08, 2007

Frequently Avoided Questions

by Chuck Smith Jr and Matt Whitlock

I cannot believe that I was up early to go shopping and now up late to read one more chapter of Chuck Smith Jr's book. I hope that you check it out.







Tom recommended it to me a few months back... I just now picked it up and cannot put it down!

Metro run

Spencer and I got up early this morning to go to Metro with Bill S. at 7:30am.

http://www.metro-cc.ru/index.jsp after the page loads just click on English if you want the page translated.

I found some treats this morning; Sweet potatoes, marshmallows, peanut butter, bacon and so on. I was excited about the sweet potatoes... I had not seen them since this time last year. But, the biggest find of the day was envelopes. Usually the envelopes we can find are already pre-stamped from the post office. So, you have to pay for the envelope as well as the postage. I found plain white envelopes. I never thought I would get excited over something so ordinary.

Sunday, January 07, 2007

presents

I bought a little backpack for Ira for her New Year's present. It is a stuffed toy poodle with a zippered pouch to store all of her things inside. Yesterday, Olya told Tom that Ira walks around telling everyone that "Aunt Alida and Uncle Tom" gave it to her. And she won't take it off... she even went to bed with it.

When they go out for walks they have seen other little girls with the same type of bag. Ira will get excited and say that she has one too! When I gave it to her it was filled with candy. I let her eat two pieces while we were watching her and Yanna on Friday. Then when her parents took her home they took all the candy out so she would not get sick trying to eat it all!

Saturday, January 06, 2007

simple joys

Spencer and I went out today to pick up new internet cards and bus passes for the month. Our time went very smoothly. At the bus depot we were able to get off the bus, purchase the passes and get back on the same bus before it pulled off again.

We got off on Krasnaya and then walked down to the UTK building to buy the new internet cards. It was lightly misting out as we were walking. Once we picked up the internet cards we continued on down Krasnaya to a video store where we found two new movies. The Wild and X Men 3. The guys have been wanting to see X Men 3 for quite sometime so that was a major find.

Spencer and I walked about 8 blocks to the next bus stop and were a little frustrasted to have seen the bus we needed pass us on the way. The bus we ended up taking was only going as far as the depot so we had to change buses to get all the way home. The bus change was the highlight of Spencer's day. He has been saying for the last three months or so that he wanted to ride one of the new buses and today he got his wish. He sat down next to me with a great big smile. I had not seen him that excited for awhile. Simple joy....riding a new bus!

Friday, January 05, 2007

Christmas Party at the Orphanage

Oksana came over today and neither one of us was feeling very much like going today. But we bit the bullet and decided to pull it all together for the kids. We stuffed the gifts bags that I bought along with the notebooks and other goodies for the kids. The other goodies came from Reconciliation Church, they took an offering for the children and went out and purchased items. We also had three teacher gifts as well.

They each received a toothbrush, toothpaste, lots of candy, notebook (Batman for boys and Cinderella for the girls), markers, a pencil and stickers. The big hit of the night were the crowns that Judi H. had picked up for the girls... but, the boys liked them too. They decided that they were kings and queens!

We had a small group of 11 children that we gave gifts to in one building and then we were asked to come over to the other building that is like a hospital for the children when they first arrive. We gave out another 12 gifts over there. We danced and sang with the kids and were treated to a break dance competition. And if you want to know how to say Break dance in Russian... it is just the English words "Break dance"!

Oksana was able to tell the Christmas story to the kids and it was great to see that many of them already knew it!

Thursday, January 04, 2007

24

Tom and I had a chance to spend some time with Tim and Joy today. Before we left their house Joy lent us the first season of 24.

It is so good to have something new to watch. We especially enjoy seeing a series. We were able to see the Amazing Race thanks to my friend Joan. And we have seen some CSI courtesy of Tom's folks. One of the things I miss the most is American TV. I could honestly count the television as a childhood friend.

Spencer and I went shopping today to buy goodies for the kids at the orphanage. We found Batman notebooks for the boys. And we found Cinderella notebooks for the girls. We purchased gift bags too. Oksana is bringing candy over tomorrow at 2 in the afternoon and we will fill the goodie bags before going over to visit the kids. They have had several groups give them candy and toys. Our focus will be to tell the Christmas story. It is so good to have Oksana with us on this project. Because as a Russian she can tell the kids the story in their own language without any grammar mistakes getting in the way!

Wednesday, January 03, 2007

and then there were two

There is officially a second AA meeting here in Krasnodar. It was Alexei's plan and design. He iniated the whole thing. Tonight was the second meeting and he did a really good job. Most of the people are from the Saturday night meeting but they were talking about how to advertise the meeting or get the word out. It is also exciting because it is at our church.

Tom says it is nice to have a meeting within walking distance and not have to take two or more buses to get there!

Tuesday, January 02, 2007

Samson

We spent the day in Axtirka. Sasha and his wife Tanya have a fitness center. They invited us to come work out and spend the day with them.

Tim, Joy, Hannah, TJ, Spencer, Tom and I drove out together to this small city of 40,000. It was a nice day today... not very cold. And no snow on the ground.

We ate dinner with the team from Axtirka, including Tom and Carol who came in from Krasnodar on the train. Sasha also invited Andrei and Valera. Andrei brought his wife and two daughters. We had duck and five different salads. Spencer said that "duck is something he never would have tried in the US".

At the fitness center, which is located right across from the only post office in town, Tom and Spencer got in a good work out. They tried all of the available equipment. There was a treadmill, weight bench, stationary bike and an elliptical trainer. I tried the stationary bike for a bit but quickly decided I had no desire to work up a sweat. I, along with Sveta and Alexei H. from the BLTC, who joined us at the fitness center, decided to go to the massage beds. It was NICE! The beds are heated and there is a device that goes from your head to below the buttocks giving you a spinal massage for 40 minutes. After that we had tea and dessert while watching nature videos.

Neither Spencer nor I took our cameras. We will just have to go again!